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There’s a fascinating discussion occurring over on the rolequeer blog called “Decolonizing Kink?” which a number of folks who are fed up with the overt racism along with other bigotry teeming from within the rotten core with the BDSM and fetish “community” are speaing frankly about what, if anything, can be done about any of it.
For people folks whoever attention, ears, along with other senses become adjusted for this kind of thing, you’ll find states of utterly grotesque, racist, sexist, homophobic, rape apologist, and ableist behaviors—to name just a couple of general issues—emanating through the very heart from the alleged “Safe, Sane, and Consensual” SADO MASO Scene. Off the very top of my personal mind alone, I’m able to remember:
- A fetish dance club in Richmond, VA called Fallout thought it might be a smart idea to compose “nigger” on the dance club walls for a post-apocalypse themed celebration. (Pro-tip: truly never ever a smart idea to use racial slurs as celebration decorations.)
- That time when FetLife founder JohnBaku generated a “Big Ebony penis” laugh, plus some in the resulting conversation on FetLife (mention the hyperlink just isn’t really to FetLife, for reasons that can become clear because keep reading).
- BDSM Scene “plantation retreats,” that will be awkwardly defended publicly by an Ebony lady known as Mollena Williams, who’s basically the Eric owner associated with the SADO MASO world and recites party-line No correct Scotsman bullshit like “BDSM just isn’t misuse” on cue utilizing the best white supremacists. (Plantation Retreats are not only an American SADO MASO thing, because SADOMASOCHISM try a globalized and manufacturing societal system, so that they occur in the United Kingdom, at the same time.)
- That point if the SADOMASOCHISM people informed sexual assault subjects it’s almost all their fault, it works out just isn’t strange.
- The period when a Portland leather-based club was compelled to terminate a Blackface results. (Pro-tip: Never book Blackface artists.)
- That point when a nationally known BDSM educator named tag Yu raped an enjoy partner, she submitted about it on FetLife, got censored by FetLife’s “no naming abusers” rules, which urged many various other lady ahead ahead, and so they comprise all censored, too, and then Franklin Veaux blogged regarding it. What happened to Mark Yu? He was asked presenting at a national SADOMASOCHISM discussion the following 12 months, ’cause, y’know, serial rape? No biggie.
- “light scrap Luau” themed fetish celebration with rewards the whitest-skinned contestant? Honestly, you can’t get this crap upwards.
Today, if you’re astonished by what amount of situations I’ve merely noted (and I also didn’t even you will need to mention all recent FetLife-involved murders!), there are 2 most likely details. 1st, you’re not really attending to, and also you most likely should-be. But next, even if you is attending to, it is not in fact no problem finding down about these events, notably less to really bear in mind these, even though you’ve existed if You will find. Hence’s no crash: the poor visibility incidents such as create (and they situations result thus consistently, and have been going on for so long, they’re like clockwork—here’s another example from 2009) become actively stifled and spin-controlled by both SADO MASO community relations/lobbying organizations like the National Coalition for sex Freedom (aka. the NCSF, whoever executive be naughty manager was once utilized by FetLife since their Community Manager) in addition to BDSM world businesses and associations by themselves. Including FetLife.
